No matter who we love, we must love ourselves first. We all hear this time & time again. For a good reason too because it’s true.
The first step is acceptance. Accepting that we are worthy of love. That we are good enough. That even with all our faults we are amazing amazing souls.
Then comes trust. Trust in ourselves that we can make the right decision for ourselves, in all areas of our life. Once we master this, trust in life comes naturally.
It’s important to find that balance, between mastering our own destiny & letting go. Then when life brings us something we don’t like we already have the trust to know it’s for the best. Sometimes life, the universe has other ideas for us. It may seem that it’s not what we want, but then we realise it’s exactly what we needed.
Life’s not always going to be perfect. Bad things happens to good people all the time. Most times theirs’ a silver lining. When we feel like we will always be travelling in this dark tunnel forever, the light turns on. We learn to appreciate the good & accepting that the bad makes us stronger.